Disappointment With Jesus? #fb

randomlychad  —  February 12, 2015 — 3 Comments

I suppose the word I’ve been dancing around is disappointment. We know that Jesus came not to make our lives better, but rather to give us better lives. Lives with purpose, meaning, depth, fulfillment. Yet we so often find ourselves frustrated, and dare I say disappointed. Because somewhere along the way we’ve heard that “God loves us, and has a wonderful plan for our lives.” While this is, in a certain sense, true, it also comes far short of the reality of walking with a God Who didn’t spare His own Son.

I mean we’re not stupid, right? We don’t like pain. And the message of the church, by and large, has been come to Christ, and He’ll solve all of your problems. As if. He came to solve the problem of sin, but this being a fallen world sin however is still very much with us.

Because we don’t embrace suffering as a path to enlightenment, because we buy into the lie that we can have it, we can have it now, there’s a great disconnect between our expectations and our experience. We should be farther along with the Lord, we shouldn’t still be struggling with _______.

Thus it is that we become discouraged, feeling like that Jesus hasn’t kept up His end. “I came that they might have life, and that more abundantly.” Where? Where is this abundant life He promised?

Could it be this is it? I sure hope the hell not. Where everyday is a struggle just to arise from bed, where there’s never enough rest, nor enough hours in the day to accomplish the things we want, and need, to do.

Why is everything a struggle?

Our best life now? Um, excuse me, but screw you Joel Osteen. Right in your lying mouth (metaphorically speaking). If your answer is that we don’t have faith, what of David, Daniel, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Jesus? Who were maltreated, abused, suffered, and died? And yet were most definitely approved of God.

What of the hall of faith in Hebrews 11? “Of whom the world was not worthy” is what is says there.

It seems to me that we’ve got it backwards. Jesus never lied, never pulled any punches, never truckled. If we’re disappointed in Him, we’re projecting, having believed lies.

We should be disappointed in ourselves for falling for it. Again.

For His is the Via Dolorosa, the way of suffering. We don’t like to hear that, but it’s indisputably, undeniably true.

What lies have you believed? What agreements–consciously, or otherwise–have you made with the other team?

What walls need to fall down in your life today?


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  • I guess it’s kinda strange how ill-prepared we can sometimes be to suffer despite how frequently the new testament discusses suffering and how God uses it to strengthen and deepen our faith. I mean verses like 1 Peter 4:1 aren’t exactly dancing around the subject. And then we have the fact that the very emblem of our faith is a cross, a symbol of extreme suffering. I guess it makes sense that we don’t like the experience of it, irrespective of however aware we may or may not be of the eternal benefits it can render. But we don’t really have an excuse for being surprised by it, and particularly so surprised that we, as we sometimes can and do, accuse God when it happens. Like you say, it just doesn’t make sense to be disappointed in Him because of suffering we or others may experience. It’s a fallen world. Yet God uses it to perfect His own intentions and purpose. Cool post.

    • In way--only a way--it’s kinda like PMS; I know it’s (suffering, pain) coming, but it just about always manages to catch me off guard. 🙂

      And yet somehow God always uses it for our good and His glory.

      Thanks for reading!

      • Ha, I like that comparison!